Mental health needs compassion, not judgement
‘Cuddle therapy’ sounds like what we all need right now. But will it actually help?
Glen Hosking, La Trobe University
Cuddle therapy is having a moment. The idea for this emerging therapy is for you to book in a specified time with a “professional cuddler”.
Websites promote cuddle therapists as specialists in platonic touch, offering a service to people who wish to cuddle for friendship, to relax or manage emotional challenges.
The aim is to find connection and improve your mental health and wellbeing.
But does it actually work?
Here’s what you need to think about before booking in.
What is cuddle therapy?
Cuddle therapists offer consensual, non-sexual cuddles in a structured and safe environment, designed to be free from criticism, bias, conflict and any behaviour or conversation that may feel unsafe or threatening.
Cuddle therapists are not official or regulated professionals. There do not appear to be any accredited training programs or professional bodies that oversee and regulate cuddle therapy.
However, there are numerous people who promote themselves as professional cuddlers, and whose services are said to offer a range of psychological and physiological benefits.
These include reductions in depression, anxiety and loneliness, improvements in social skills and immune functioning, lowered blood pressure and a decreased risk of heart disease.
Providers suggest cuddle therapy can also lessen symptoms of post‑traumatic stress disorder, enhance a person’s capacity to recover from experiences of sexual or physical abuse, and reduce cravings associated with substance use.
Comforting claims, sparse science
Despite such claims, there do not appear to be any published peer‑reviewed studies that directly examine the psychological or physiological effects of engaging a professional cuddler.
There is, however, a broader body of research exploring the benefits of non‑sexual physical touch, including hugging and gentle, sustained contact.
Such touch has been associated with reductions in daily stress and improvements in overall wellbeing. Physical touch has also been identified as a way of conveying empathy, social bonding, and care.
Most of this research focuses on touch in close relationships – such as with partners, parents or friends – rather than touch delivered by a practitioner as part of a paid service. So, we don’t know if these findings translate to cuddle therapy.
There are however, known impacts of physical touch, including prompting the release of the hormone oxytocin. Oxytocin interacts with other neurochemicals, most notably dopamine, which supports feelings of comfort and connection.
Together, these neurochemical responses help explain why sustained touch can have a calming and soothing effect.
Professional cuddles need professional boundaries
Because cuddle therapy involves physical touch, emotional vulnerability and power dynamics between therapist and client, it raises a number of important ethical and professional issues.
1. Provide informed consent
If you’re thinking about cuddle therapy, ask what the service does and does not involve. Get a clear explanation about the boundaries of the service, where touch is and is not permitted, and the structure of the session.
You’ll need to provide explicit and informed consent before proceeding, and you can withdraw consent at any time.
2. Professional boundaries must be clear
A cuddle therapy relationship should remain professional at all times.
It is not OK for your cuddle therapist to express personal or romantic interest, or that the connection is becoming “special” or exclusive in ways that go beyond the agreed‑upon service.
Likewise, a practitioner should never pressure you to share personal information or disclose more than you are comfortable with.
Maintaining firm boundaries helps ensure the interaction remains safe, respectful and centred on your wellbeing rather than blurring into a personal relationship.
3. Watch you’re not becoming dependent
You may seek cuddle therapy because you are vulnerable, including but not limited to being lonely, depressed or in emotional pain. It is understandable that a touch‑based session may help you feel cared for, grounded or safe in the moment.
However, you should also watch for signs you are becoming dependent on a practitioner for emotional stability or comfort. This might include believing you can only feel calm, safe or OK after seeing that specific practitioner or wanting increasing contact or more cuddle therapy sessions.
4. It’s no cure for complex issues
Similarly, while cuddle therapy can offer temporary relief and a sense of connection, it is not designed to resolve underlying psychological issues or replace professional mental health care.
So cuddle therapy should be viewed as a supportive experience, but not a cure for broader or more complex emotional challenges.
Key takeaways
Taken together, cuddle therapy is an emerging practice centred on consensual, non‑sexual physical touch delivered in a structured environment. It’s promoted online as a way to reduce distress and enhance emotional wellbeing.
Cuddle therapy remains unregulated, with no formal training pathways or governing bodies overseeing professional standards. So service providers, rather than empirical evidence, largely shape public information about cuddle therapy.
Evidence suggests a range of benefits of physical touch. However, if you do pursue cuddle therapy you should ensure there are clear boundaries, you provide informed consent, and know you can withdraw that consent at any time.![]()
Glen Hosking, Clinical Psychologist and Associate Professor of Psychology, La Trobe University
This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.
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Love is good for health

- (1) Strengthens the immune system. Biochemical reactions experienced by the body of a person when being in love help improve health and help to "strengthen the immune system," according to experts. With love our quality of life is better and tend to get sick less, and that negative feelings are outweighed by the positive and our body works better.
- (2) Influences on the rapid recovery. We have seen that sick people who have someone to love them and watch for them, have a faster recovery than patients who have no affection from anyone. (3) Improves quality of life. We are more likely to get sick and depressed when we have problems and we are alone. However, the love we prolong life. Being loved makes problems feel lighter with the support of others.
- (4) Energy and stress. According to experts, the emotional well it feels like to be able to give love and helping others makes people feel more energy and fighting stress.
- (5) A feeling of great comfort. From the endocrinological point of view, love brings change for the better. As Jesus says Dr. Rocca, Ricardo Palma Clinic, "the first thing you are beta releases endorphins that trigger when you're in love, and are responsible for the feeling of great comfort. (6) Love rejuvenates. "The hormones, the nervous system and skin, forming a narrow triangle, so the separation of estrogen in women improves hair, nails, skin," says Sandro Tucto dermatologist.
- (7) Fewer doctor visits. Another study found that couples who have spent more time together, make fewer doctor visits. The psychiatrist Enrique Galli said that "stable relationships get colds less than singles, while elderly couples suffer less pain than the lonely elderly. This is due to segregation of hormones that allow for greater resistance to pain. "
- (8) Making love, health benefits. Keeping sexually active and safe, influences our physical and emotional state is very important to our overall health. It is scientifically proven that people who frequently make love, get sick less and are happier. The list of health benefits that are attributed to sex as therapeutic activity include: well-being, improves self-esteem, makes you look younger, is a natural pain reliever, improves interpersonal relationships, reduces snoring, strengthens immune system, increases energy, relieves symptoms of depression, anxiety and psychosomatic disorders. So now you know, since love helps heal, self-medication is recommended a good dose of love every day to live healthy and happy. Source: Forum Human Health, Image: flickr.com
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Great Ways to Start Your Day

The way you spend your morning can add a certain flavor to the rest of your day. Here are some
healthy lifestyle habits to incorporate into your morning routine that can leave you better able to handle the stress you .experience. Try one or several, and experiment until you find what suites you for a healthy lifestyle. Morning walk has so many health benefits, the stress management benefits are just gravy! A morning walk can get yo ready for a refreshing and energetic day, helps you sleep better at night, keeps a check on weight and reduces the risk of numerous other health conditions Eating a balanced breakfast can balance your blood sugar levels and give you the sustenance needed to handle day to day mental and physical stress. Be sure to have plenty of protein and
fruit, not just caffeine and empty calories! Remember, breakfast is the most important meal of the day without which one can be more resilient both mentally and physically! Therefore, do not skip! Stretch in the shower! The hot water loosens up the muscles and makes it easier to get a good stretch. The act of stretching will help to release stored tension and enable you to start the day feeling more relaxed, at peace, and ready to handle what comes your way! Sipping a warm cup of Green tea is a soothing activity that will help you prepare for the day ahead and feel nurtured. Green tea is loaded with antioxidants, that keeps up the immune system and maintains healthy weight and helps to cope up with stress and anxiety. Put on some music and start your day! Music therapy has been shown to reduce stress and have a positive effect on health and mood! Listening to music as you get ready and start your day will create a sense of peace and well being. Music can.jpg)
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E-Book: Stay Fit Feel Young
Every positive or negative development needs too much time to reach a level of maximization and both are having its own diversity. What do we need? Answer is "control or adjustment" with schedule to craft us psychically or mentally strong. An over weight person is full of fat with his bound extra energy if he will understand the value of his fat then he can be like any thing. As same as a very slim person with less require energy or a well built person with a shape of balance energy but they all have
their own challenge to meet with a level of their liking. What has to be the next step? This called a progression of the best form as per every bodies liking or a conversion of bound energy in unbound style, generation of extra energy or ambition to gain utmost energy by an extra effort of Physical exercise, Yoga, cycling, jogging, walking, dips, weight lifting, swimming, all required parameters of a gymnasium, sport and very importantly place exercise / yoga between your work. All these will make you fit; relax cool, composed and so many disease won't like to see your home address.
Scheduling the day is Very important to manage the basics of living like timing of wake up, refreshment, morning tea, exercise, break fast, lunch, dinner with respect to work and its timing. Weight can be reduced by two ways 1st dieting, 2nd exercise or the combination of both "A science research is also measured that when body won't find the require Contents of food then it starts to eat its own fat, means fat can convert by dieting (you can take the example of so many Jain religious people those used to live without food for several days or months for their worshiping but they stay live Very
fit, Doctor used to apply the technique of reducing stomach (Amashaya) up to 80% it's also a form of dieting) or very productive exercise which covers all the part of body can burn fat rapidly If the range of exercise will robust then it starts to convert fat with heavy Muscular shape you can take the example of so many wrestlers and their dieting Schedule and the way they used to consumed their daily routine extra take by very heavy exercise. So it's simple when the combinations of dieting and exercise will come together then Chances of reducing the fat would on higher side. Proper minerals, vitamin, protein takes (in the shape of fruit, high fiber diet or Branded
organic tablets) are Essential for dieting, heavy exercise or for both, Before applying any dietary or exercise schedule first you have to calculate your body mass index and consult with a certified fitness trainer or from a doctor for daily calorie burning needs, daily food intake with specific exercise schedule as every age group and gender has its own limitations. Then you will able to calculate the need of daily exercise with specific foods take on your Finger tips Suppose you have taken bit higher food with respects to your daily need then you can go for more work out then your body will automatically tell you that your intake is consumed properly. Exercise can be like these (1) Speedy
Morning Walk: 30 minutes (If you feel bore to do so then speak your Religious Mantra or any song of your inspiration in your mind along with walk. (2) Psychical Exercise: 25 minutes (Do it with every part of your exercise like -: head, neck, Shoulders, chest, stomach , waist, back, hips, legs etc.) In the shape of dips, weight lifting or you can follow amazing “Baba ram dev”.(3) Reverse Exercise: – 5 minutes -: lastly you can go for some crucial reverse (Opposite) exercise especially for Waist, back (over body is just like a spring if it will move on one side continuously then we can find sting so reverse Exercise makes body in normal shape). (4) Time
Management: timing is the most important issue with any exercise schedule, Try to be productive day by day, means you have to reduce your time of your assign work out agenda for the best result. Crucial Points: (a) When we eat something then we should go for 2 to 10 minutes walk whatever the place we would be by doing this we can save our self from several health problems. (b) After doing 2 to 5 hours work if any body go for 2 to 3 breath control Yoga just for 5 Minutes then he can find himself fully fresh and energy fully for coming working hours because here Yoga is just like a reverse exercise which compose your body in Standard form. Every body knows that 1ST happiness comes from disease less healthy body and exercise, yoga etc. are the source of generation. So come on do the task just for your self. All the Images And Video Links taken just for reference purpose: Image Flickr: Link1, Link2, Link3 Link4, Link5, Link6, Link7, Link8, Link9, Link10, Author: Ashish Bordiya
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Your body talks
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Frequent massage boosts biological benefits
By: Kathi Baker, Woodruff Health Sciences Center, Repeated massage therapy delivers sustained, cumulative beneficial effects, a new study shows. The effects persist for several days to a week, and differ depending on the frequency of sessions. Results of the study were reported in the Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine. The researchers, led by Mark Hyman Rapaport, examined the biological effects of repeated Swedish Massage Therapy and light touch intervention. In a priorstudy, the researchers found that healthy people who undergo a single session of Swedish Massage experience measureable changes in their body’s immune and endocrine response. "We expanded the study to show the effects of repeated massage because we believed the frequency of massage, or the interval between massages, may have different biological and psychological effects than a single session," explains Rapaport, chair of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Emory University School of Medicine. The study was conducted over five weeks, assessing neuroendocrine and immune parameters. Study volunteers were randomized into four intervention groups to receive a concurrent five weeks of Swedish Massage once a week or twice a week, or a light touch control once a week or twice a week. Source: eScienceCommons
Lose Weight The Natural Way
A Chaotic & unhealthy lifestyle can have a poor impact on our health which may lead to increase in body weight or obesity, heart diseases & strokes,diabetes, hypertension & aweaker immune system. Of these, weight gain is becoming a matter of concern among the people. In the era of commercialization, we find various weight loss pills, anti-cellulite products and expensive fitness gadgets popping up on the internet and television screens, but these can only cause frustration and may prove detrimental to our health. Natural herbal remedies are safe and promising in reducing weight. Let's try some of such formulations for controlling weight in a healthy manner: (1) Mix in a glass of lukewarm water, a tsp of honey with ½ tsp lemon juice. Drink it every morning and evening to lose weight. (2) Pound a ginger rhizome & boil the same in water. Add to it, ½ tsp lemon juice and 1/4th tsp black pepper powder. Have it when hot. (3) Squeeze a lemon in a glass of bitter gourd juice and have it every morning. (4) Having a tomato or two in morning is said to be beneficial in reducing weight. (5) Boil about 10 gm of triphala (a combination of equal amount of Amla, Harra & Beheda powder in a glass of water for 10 minutes. Consume it warm in the morning. (6) Consuming 2 cups of Green tea is also believed to shed excess fat. (7) To keep a check on weight, soak a few leaves ofIndian plum/ Jamun overnight. Discard the leaves & drink water in the morning on an empty stomach. (8) Take ½ tsp of guggal powder, a tsp of 
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Benefits of Morning Walk
- (1) Stimulates blood circulation
- (2) Strengthensthe cardiovascular system
- (3) Lowers the cholesterol levels
- (4) Controls weight
- (5) Keeps a check on blood pressure levels
- (6) Prevents osteoporosis
- 7) Develops stamina and strength. Latest studies also suggest that walking is the best exercise for the brain, as the latter is nourished by the blood sugar due to improved circulation. Do get at least 30 to 40 minutes walk everyday. Remember, time spent walking means time taken off from the stresses of daily life. So, Get Going. Source: HerbHealtH
Join the smile high club
natural painkillers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed.(3) Confidence: We don’t need an expert to validate this, though we do need to be reminded from time to time — we are always drawn to people who smile. Job seekers give the air of confidence when they project the right smile while date hunters often fall hook, line and sinker for a prospective partner, just because of a smile. It’s also infectious. You smile at someone and they are mostly like going to smile right back.Youth recall: The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Try smiling your way through the day — you’ll look younger and feel better. (1) Eyes: Resistance exercises can reduce crow’s feet, the lines near the outer corner of the eyes. When the skin around the eyes is more toned and firm, existing lines become less prominent and the skin is less prone to developing new lines. Try smiling into a mirror, placing your index fingers near the outer corner of your eyes, and pressing gently upward, to lift the cheek. Hold for six seconds, then release. (2) Mouth: Pucker up and smile to tone the area around the lips and lower cheeks, recommends FatFreeKitchen.com. By reducing smile lines around the mouth, you may be more inclined to share your pearly whites. Purse the lips as dramatically as possible, pulling in the cheeks, then try to smile. Hold the
pose until you feel a mild ache in the muscle region around the mouth. To prevent muscle strain, do this exercise just once daily. (3) Cheeks: Tone your cheek muscles while acting silly to stay motivated to maintain the workout, suggests Womens-Health-and-Fitness.com. Grin a huge smile while keeping your lips closed, making sure the edges of your mouth turn upwards. Try to touch your ears with the corners of your mouth. Wrinkle your nose to feel your cheek muscles engage. Hold for five seconds, then let your face relax. Repeat the exercise 10 times. How to identify: There is no doubt that the world is turning into a scarier place with rapists, murderers and maniacs galore, so it’s possibly understandable why people are reluctant to take a smile at face value. On the other hand you have fashionistas and socialites giving a smile a bad name with their fake ones. Yet, a genuine grin is a connection that can be made instantly…one which you will recognise instantly too. (1) The Duchenne Smile: French physician Guillaume Duchenne paid particular attention to an anatomical distinction of the smile. While conducting research on the physiology of facial expressions in the mid-19th century, Duchenne identified two distinct types of smiles. A Duchenne smile involves contraction of both the zygomatic major muscle (which raises the corners of the mouth) and the orbicularis oculi muscle (which raises the cheeks and forms crow’s feet around the eyes). Duchenne smiles are known as authentic smiles because they consistently co-occur with positive emotions. Duchenne smiles are marked by wrinkles in the eyes that resemble crows feet and are associated with feeling excitement, amusement, interest, happiness and joy. (2) The Pan-Am smile : The Pan-Am smile, also known as the “Botox smile”, is the name given to a “fake smile”, in which only the zygomatic major muscle is voluntarily contracted to show politeness. It is named after the airline Pan American World Airways, whose flight attendants would always flash every jet-setter the same, perfunctory smile. A non-Duchenne smile involves only the zygomatic major muscle. Supreme quote: As long as you smile, have sparkly eyes and stick your shoulders back, nobody's going to notice your bum or your waist or your feet, for that matter –– Cat Deeley. Image Flickr Link1, Link2, Link3, Source: Deccan Chronicle
Daily yoga or 20 mins of walking may benefit cancer patients
Indian Express, Agencies : Washington, Researchers are working towards being able to prove, with scientific certainty, that prescriptions for daily yoga or 20 minutes of walking will likely extend a cancer patient’s survival. But several studies at the University of Rochester Medical Center have suggested that knowing how to develop and apply specific exercise programs (dose and timing to achieve a certain outcome) is a realistic goal. Karen Mustian and Lisa K. Sprod from the James P. Wilmot Cancer Center at URMC investigated physical activity among older people, a group they describe as often overlooked and underestimated in terms of their ability to live with cancer. Mustian, Ph.D., M.P.H., assistant professor of Radiation Oncology at URMC and an exercise psychologist specializing in cancer, conducted a phase II clinical trial to discover whether six weeks of a home-based exercise plan (walking and resistance bands) improved cancer-related fatigue and strength in 58 men with prostate cancer who were treated with radiation and androgen deprivation therapy. The mean age of the group was 67. The men had a wide range of fitness levels, from frailty to golfers who were fit and active. A control group that did no exercise was also established. Researchers measured cardiopulmonary function (through a gold-standard test called Vo2-peak) and muscular strength, and found that all exercisers improved while the control group declined in performance. The most significant information, Mustian said, was that everyone who exercised regularly achieved some added benefit – even the fittest participants. K. Sprod, Ph.D., a junior faculty member who is being recognized with an ASCO Merit Award, investigated the appropriate amount, type, and intensity of exercise in cancer survivors older than 65, who are also experiencing the natural functional declines associated with aging. The double hit, she said, is an understudied issue. After analyzing a national sample of 14,887 people, Sprod established that older cancer survivors engage in less physical activity , even routine activity such as stooping, lifting, and walking – than people without a history of cancer. This may lead to less independence, a higher risk of the cancer coming back, and reduced survival. The study raises new questions, such as whether the treatment contributes to less activity, or whether patients and physicians are worried about the safety of becoming physically active during and after cancer treatment, or a combination of the two factors, Sprod said. In another exercise-related study, Luke J. Peppone, Ph.D., a research assistant professor, investigated the effects of a yoga program on women with breast cancer who were taking aromatase inhibitors, medications that deplete estrogen and often cause severe menopause-like symptoms. A frequent complaint is joint pain and muscle aches, sometimes making it difficult for women to get out of bed or grip a fork and knife. Peppone said a high percentage of breast cancer survivors discontinue aromatase inhibitor therapy because of side effects, putting them at greater risk for cancer recurrence. His study measured the self-reported quality of life and physical discomfort among 95 women taking aromatase inhibitors and 72 women who were not taking the drug. Each group took part in a four-week gentle yoga program. The women taking aromatase inhibitors reported a significant reduction in pain, muscle aches, and total physical discomfort, Peppone said. The study will serve as a pilot to launch a larger study of exercise to relieve musculoskeletal pain. Finally, a controlled study of yoga therapy in middle-aged, mostly female cancer survivors showed that a four-week, customized gentle yoga plan significantly reduced perceived difficulty with memory. Michelle C. Janelsins, Ph.D., research assistant professor at Wilmot, randomized patients to one of two groups: standard follow-up care after receiving adjuvant cancer treatment, and standard care plus a program that consisted of breathing exercises, gentle Hatha and Restorative yoga postures, and meditation. The yoga group had significantly reduced memory difficulty compared to the standard care control group. Improved memory also partially contributed to improved fatigue and improved quality of life, Janelsins noted. In some ways, Mustian said, the exercise-and-cancer dilemma harkens to the days when it was not known what types of chemotherapy and how much should be given to cancer patients. Through rigorous scientific inquiry, physicians were able to refine the way they prescribe and administer chemo and Mustian believes the same refinement is possible with exercise. “I think we do an incredible disservice to people who have just been diagnosed with cancer when we say, ‘Just do it!” Mustian said. “Sometimes we see 72-year-olds who are more fit than 55-year-olds, and so it is best to look at functional capacity, and then to be as specific as possible when it comes to personalizing exercise for people with cancer. Otherwise we are sending mixed messages,” he added. The findings will be presented at the American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO) 2012 annual meeting in Chicago, June 1-5, 2012. Source: Indian Express, Image: flickr.com

